SEX ADDICTION & MARRIAGE SURVIVAL KIT
Have you ever ask yourself…this question.
“Why did I attract this person into my life?”
I know your time is valuable, so I’ll get straight to the point:
The answer is surprisingly simple…and has everything to do with YOU and your SUBCONSCIOUS MIND.
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Your subconscious mind has what are called “unconscious polarized issues” that are “Anchor beliefs” coming from your childhood.
These subconscious ‘programs’ and your husband/wife/partner’s issues are like magnets attracting each other...
...And strangely enough...BY resolving these SUBCONSCIOUS programs…it is exactly what is needed to ‘heal’ your self, possibly your partner and overcome your current relationship issues…
Understand this and you are on the road to Personal Freedom.
SEE IF THIS SOUNDS LIKE YOU…
• My worthiness feelings about myself stem from receiving approval from someone else
• Other people’s struggles affect my tranquility
• My mental attention focuses on solving others problems/relieving others pain
• My good feelings (about myself) developed from being liked by someone else
• My mental attention is focused on others
• My fear of others anger controls what I say or do
• My psychological attention is focused on manipulating others to do it my way
• Relieving others pain reinforces my self-esteem
• My own hobbies/interests are put to one side for other people
• My timetable is spent sharing others hobbies/interests
• Others clothing and personal appearance are dictated by my desires and I feel others are a reflection of myself
• Others behavior is dictated by my wishes and I feel others are a image of me
• My emotional attention is focused on protecting others
• I am not aware of my feeling deep inside
• Solving others problems bolsters my self-esteem
• I am aware of how others feel.
• I am not conscious of what I want
• I ask what others want.
• I assume the aspirations I have for my future are linked to others
• My fears of rejection governs what I say or do
• I use charitable acts as a way of feeling safe in my relationships
• I put my personal values aside in order to connect with others
• I value others opinion and others ways of doing things more than my own
• The worth of my life is in relation to the quality of others
If these sounds anything like you…then you’re likely Codependent.
Codependency is not a disease, it is an emotional and behavioral condition that is learned and then stored in the subconscious…it affects your ability to have a healthy relationship with others.
Codependents generally are in (or develop) emotionally destructive relationships that are one-sided; pleasing oriented and therefore become abusive.
Many Psychotherapists now call codependency: “A Relationship Addiction”.
Codependency can also manifest as Love Addiction, Avoidant or Dependent Personality Disorder or Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
There is a CURE!
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